Seeking connection can trigger shame loops in couples: An attachment‐based understanding.

  • Published In: Family Process, 2024, v. 63, n. 1. P. 34 1 of 3

  • Database: Academic Search Ultimate 2 of 3

  • Authored By: Frediani, Gianina; Migerode, Lieven 3 of 3

Abstract

Research shows that shame can have a severe negative impact on intimate relationships, leading to negative shame loops between partners. In this article, we aim to provide a theoretical analysis of how attachment theory can help us understand that shame loops within couple relationships may not only be triggered by negative cues, such as criticism from a partner but can also innocently be triggered by a partner seeking connection or even offering comfort. We also elaborate on how therapists may unexpectedly trigger and intensify a client's shame. We conclude by providing a case description and discussing the therapeutic implications that can be helpful when working with the paradoxes of shame in couple therapy. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]

Additional Information

  • Source:Family Process. 2024/03, Vol. 63, Issue 1, p34
  • Document Type:Article
  • Subject Area:Health and Medicine
  • Publication Date:2024
  • ISSN:0014-7370
  • DOI:10.1111/famp.12888
  • Accession Number:176294641
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